Filling out this quick assessment will reveal the sexual archetype that most closely aligns with you—giving you a crystal-clear understanding of where you stand. You’ll discover the strengths you can harness, the pitfalls to avoid, and the subtle areas where you can fine-tune to unlock your full sexual potential. Most men are unaware of these powerful insights, and the truth is—this information can change your entire relationship with sex which changes you as a man. Take a few minutes to invest in yourself, and I’ll send you your personalized sexual archetype, complete with the exact steps to guide you toward a more confident, connected, and powerful version of yourself. This is the breakthrough you’ve been waiting for.
Section 1:
Personal History and Development
What Sexual orientation do you identify with?
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Homosexual
Bisexual
Heterosexual
Pansexual
Other
What messages did you receive about sex (said or implied) from your parents, family, or community? (mark all that apply)
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Sex is private
Sex is a natural part of life
Sex is bad, dangerous, or evil and should be avoided
No sex until marriage
Sex should be between a man and a woman
I was not taught about sex adequately
At what age did you have your first sexual experience with another? (Genital touching)
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Under 12
12-17
18-24
25+
Did you have any sexual experiences that impacted you negatively?
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Yes
No
Not that I remember
Section 2:
Masturbation and Sexual Practices
How often do you masturbate to ejaculation in a typical week?
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0-1 times
2-3 times
4-6 times
7+ times
Do you masturbate more or less than you'd like?
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More
Less
Just Right
At what age did you get exposed to porn?
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Under 12
12-15
16-20
21+
Does the type of porn you watch align with the kind of sex you have in your day to day life?
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Yes, it matches
No, there are significant differences
Sometimes it matches, but not always
I don't watch porn
Do you feel guilt or shame after watching porn or masturbating?
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Sometimes I feel guilt (I did something wrong)
Sometimes I feel shame (Something is wrong with me)
I usually feel good after I watch porn or masturbate
A mix of all three
How do you feel about your current sex life? With self and others
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Very dissatisfied
Dissatisfied
Neutral
Satisfied
Very satisfied
Section 3
Relationships, sex, and intimacy
How important to you is sexual compatibility in a romantic relationship?
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Not important
Somewhat important
Neutral
Important
Very important
What role does sexual chemistry play in how you connect with a partner?
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Not important
Somewhat imporant
Neutral
Important
Very important
Do you find it easy or challenging to communicate your sexual needs to a partner?
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Very difficult
Somewhat difficult
Neutral
Somewhat Easy
Very easy
What makes it hard to express your desires? (mark all that apply)
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Fear of judgment
Not sure what I want
Lack of confidence
Fear of rejection
Concern about creating conflict
What qualities or characteristics do you believe are necessary for a fulfilling sexual connection? (mark all that apply)
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Strong physical attraction
Similar turn-ons or kinks
Clear communication about desires and boundaries
Mutual respect for each other's needs and wants
Vulnerability and openness
Trust and emotional safety
Section 4
Emotional and Psychological Aspects
How does not having sex with another person impact your emotional wellbeing?
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Very negatively, I get irritable
Somewhat negatively, I notice it
Neutral
Somewhat Positively
Does masturbation make you feel more connected to yourself, or does it leave you feeling empty or stressed?
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Connected and fulfilled
Somewhat connected
Neutral
Stressed or empty
Do you believe sex with another is primarily for physical or emotional connection?
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Physical pleasure
Emotional connection
Both equally
Neither
Do you ever use orgasm as a way to distract, avoid problems, or feel better when life is tough?
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Yes, often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never
What external influences (culture, religion, society) have shaped your views on intimacy and sexuality? (mark all that apply)
Family upbringing
Cultural norms and traditions
Pornography and adult content
Peer influence (friends, social groups)
Education or formal sex education
Personal experiences and relationships
Other
Section 5:
Media and influences
Do you think what we see in the media affects our relationship with sexuality?
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Yes, significantly
Somewhat
Neutral
Not at all
Have you ever felt inadequate about your own sexual experiences compared to what you see in the media and porn?
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Yes, often
Someimes
Rarely
Never
Do you find yourself comparing your sex life to media or porn, and do you try to mimic what you see?
Yes, often. I compare and try to recreate what I see
Yes, sometimes. I compare, but I don’t try to mimic it
No, I rarely compare, and I don't try to mimic it
No, I never compare or try to mimic what I see
I haven’t really thought about it before
Other
Section 6
Relationship to Masculinity
How did men show up around you when you were growing up? (mark all that apply)
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Strong, protective, and emotionally available
Provider, leader, but also caring and involved
Focused on work and success, with little emotional bandwidth
Absent: either physically or emotionally
Struggling but trying their best
No clear role, mixed messages about masculinity
Where there strong male role models around you?
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Yes, strong role models
No
Were men in your life emotionally available?
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Yes
No
Did you grow up predominantly around women?
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Yes
No
What messages about masculinity were you exposed to growing up, including ideas about power, dominance, or aggression? (mark all that apply)
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Men should be strong, dominant, and assertive
Men should avoid showing vulnerability or emotions
Men are supposed to be the providers and protectors
Men should never back down from a challenge or fight
Men should be independent and handle everything on their own
Men should be leaders and in control of situations
Men should avoid conflict, be passive, and avoid aggression
Masculinity means being tough and competitive at all costs
Healthy masculinity involves balancing strength with emotional awareness and empathy
Do you feel comfortable being dominant or assertive in intimate situations, or do you avoid expressing power in those places?
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Very comfortable
Somewhat comfortable
Neutral
Uncomfortable
Very uncomfortable
Section 7 ( You are almost done! )
People pleasing and Self-Worth
Do you feel like you need to please others to be liked or accepted?
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Yes, often
Sometimes
Rarely
I don't give a sh*t what others think
How often do you prioritize your partner's pleasure over your own?
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Always
Often
Sometimes
I focus on me first
Have you ever felt like you had to perform in bed to feel loved or wanted?
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Yes, often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never
How much pressure do you feel to meet certain standards in sex or intimacy?
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A lot of pressure
Some pressure
little pressure
No pressure
Do you find it difficult to express your sexual needs or desires to a partner because you're afraid of rejection?
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Yes
Sometimes
No, I am confident
How often do you clearly ask for what you want in the bedroom?
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Always
Often
Sometimes
Never
When you're intimate with someone, do you worry about their satisfaction equal to your own or more than your own?
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I want them to be the most satisfied
I focus on my own satisfaction first
We take turns as top priority, they orgasm and then it's my turn
I am just trying to make it as long as I can
Section 8:
Last Section! Future Reflection and Goals
What are your hopes and expectations for your future relationship to sexuality? (mark all that apply)
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I hope to develop deeper intimacy and emotional connection with a partner
I expect to feel more confident and comfortable in my own sexual identity
I want to experience more variety and excitement in my sex life
I hope to heal from past sexual struggles and build a healthier relationship with sex
I expect to have a more balanced approach to sex, integrating both pleasure and emotional connection
I want to be more open and communicative about my sexual desires and boundaries
I hope to embrace my sexuality with out fear or feeling bad
Do you want more intimacy, better communication, that will result in a healthier relationship with your sexuality?
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Yes
No
Are there aspects of your sexual life you would like to change or improve?
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Yes
No
Maybe
Anything else that needs to be shared or you want to speak to?
What do you think is the most important aspect of your relationship to sex that needs to be addressed?
Name
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First Name
Last Name
Email
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