Practice Mindfulness
Imagine that your automatic thoughts and feelings about this situation are like waves--they come, are here for a short while, and then they are gone. Remind yourself that no thought or feeling is permanent. You have never felt a feeling forever, and you have never had a thought in your head 100% of the time all the way through your life. They are all just temporary experiences. Try to accept that you have troubling thoughts and feelings sometimes. Try to treat them as visitors that come for a little while and then leave. Make an effort to not judge yourself or anyone else for having them, viewing them as a natural part of living. All humans experience them; it is normal and healthy.