Is it possible to copy a template and send it to a friend that uses jot form

Yes, you only need to get the direct link of your form, this will be done by clicking on the publish wizard and copying the link provided there: 

You will provide this link to your friend and you will also need to provide the guide to clone a form using the direct link, here is it: How-to-Clone-an-Existing-Form-from-a-URL

This way he will get a copy of the form you have created so he can use it an customize it on his end. 

Another way would be to share the form you have created as template in our "Templates" page, here's a guide to do it: Sharing-a-form-in-the-form-templates-gallery

Once you have done this you will need to indicate your friend how he can find the form, give the template name or the category where you have published it. 

And this guide will help to use the template: How-to-use-the-form-templates

If you have any question, let us know.